A curated collection of wedding inspiration, planning guidance, and timeless ideas designed to help you create a celebration filled with meaningful details, gracious hospitality, and unforgettable moments.

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Groomsmen gift ideas

Your wedding party sticks by your side through thick and thin. Show them your appreciation with a personalized gift! There are so many great resources to help assemble groomsmen gifts. Popular gifts include matching cufflinks, custom wallets, or engraved decanter and glass sets. We like to turn to customizable gift websites such as Etsy where […]

Wedding Planning, Wedding Tips

Groomsmen Gift Ideas

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Ways To Get the Groom Involved in the Planning Process

It may be tradition for the bride to take control of the wedding planning, but grooms are getting more and more involved! Make a date night out of it! The best way to get your groom interested is to pair wedding talk with some food and beverages. Rather than feeling put on the spot, you […]

Engagements, Wedding Planning, Wedding Tips, Weddings

Ways To Get the Groom Involved in the Planning Process

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4 Tips To Reduce Stress Leading Up To Your Wedding

Planning a wedding can lead to some unexpected stress. We have tips to keep your cool before the big day. 1. Trust your planner – that’s what we’re here for!! We keep your checklist in order, so you stay on track without having to worry what your next step is. 2. Perfect your timeline – […]

Wedding Planning, Wedding Tips, Weddings

4 Tips To Reduce Stress Leading Up To Your Wedding

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How To Obtain A Marriage License In North Carolina

Knowing how to get your marriage license before your wedding day is, well.. kind of important! Follow these steps to obtain your marriage license and make it official! Locate the Register of Deeds in your county and determine whether you can submit an online application or have to plan to go in. You’ll need to […]

Engagements, Wedding Planning

How To Obtain A Marriage License In North Carolina

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Tipping Your Wedding Vendors

Your wedding vendors work hard! How do you show your appreciation? We have the breakdown of how to tip your vendors. DJ/MC – 15% of their service Bartender – 15-20% of total bill Hair/Makeup – 20% of services Wedding Planner – 15-20 of their cost of services Photographer/Videographer – 15-20% of their cost of services […]

Budget, Vendors, Wedding Planning, Wedding Tips

Tipping Your Wedding Vendors

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How To Create Your Wedding Guest List

With so many changes in the wedding industry over the past year, creating a guest list should be your first task in wedding planning. Your venue, catering, and other major decisions are contingent on your guest list size. Where to begin? Start by organizing your list by wedding party, immediate family, other relatives, friends, and […]

Engagements, Wedding Planning, Wedding Tips

How To Create Your Wedding Guest List

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Should We or Shouldn't We have Children at our Wedding?

All adult weddings are becoming popular, but a tricky topic with your guests. Allowing children can make accommodations more convenient for families. Some guests may not be able to attend if they cannot find a sitter for their kids. A children-free wedding means more of an elegant affair or a party feel, depending on your […]

Wedding Tips, Weddings

Should We or Shouldn’t We Have Children at our Wedding?

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Do's & Don'ts When Planning a Wedding

Just engaged? Congratulations! Planning a wedding can seem like a lot of work, but we have a couple “do’s and don’ts” to guide you in the right direction! Do: Create a checklist. There are major items you’re going to want to check off. Once you choose a date, you’re going to want to pin down […]

Engagements, Wedding Planning, Wedding Tips, Weddings

Do’s & Don’ts When Planning a Wedding

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Tips on Prepping for the Wedding Day

Counting down to your big day! How should you prepare when your wedding is almost here?? Define your skin care regimen. Make sure you are staying hydrated and keep your skin and hair nourished for flawless bridal day beauty! Avoid any major treatments, peels, or new hairstyles! Schedule your final dress fitting. Set up the […]

Engagements, Wedding Planning, Wedding Tips, Weddings

Tips on Prepping for the Wedding Day

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Planning a Wedding Over a Year Out

Planning a wedding in 2022? With the uncertainty on large gatherings currently, many couples are opting for a wedding date two years away to guarantee their date and guest list size. How does your planning timeline look different? You’ll have more flexibility in how quickly you book vendors and decide on details such as your […]

Wedding Planning, Wedding Tips, Weddings

Planning a Wedding Over a Year Out

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The guide includes the month-by-month timeline, vendor booking checklist, wedding-day emergency kit, and final planning reminders.

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